[quote] Mother Teresa? Not what I had in mind. Fill in the blank. [/quote]

You can't really help yourself can you? Abusive comments are a compulsion for you.

The only way you can respond to a comment you don't like is to use abusive insults. Is it a compulsive disorder that you have?

Anyway, I'm glad you're going to counselling with your wife.

One last thing...being completely honest, you'd be the last person on earth I'd ever want compassion from. So no worries there, you'll never be asked for it. Keep up the counselling. It's a good idea.