malone
(Platinum)
08/26/08 02:03 PM
219.89.17.229
Re: Please Help.....

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The way he talks to me when we fight is awful. He calls me names, threatens to hit me, threatens to "throw me out of the house", and other various threats. He will take away my debit card, my cell phone, my car keys and pretty much anything else he can find to take away from me.

If I try to walk away from his fights, he follows me, he won't let me walk away. And to him, it doesn't matter whether our girls are in the room, he still fights with me in front of them if they are in there.


You are in a terrible marriage. You are being subjected to terrible abuse. You should not still be there. Your husband's abuse of you is very serious and will only get worse.

This kind of envirnoment is very very damaging for children. Your children need a loving, safe and secure environment. I urge you to tell a friend or family member and plan your departure.

Do not have fear about losing your daughters. Find somewhere else to go to and move with your children. If you think he will try to stop you, get someone to help you. You should also contact a Domestic Abuse Helpline or a Women's Shelter.

You should not stay. It will get worse. Domestic abuse and violence ALWAYS gets worse. It is very damaging for both you and your children. Your children deserve better and so do you.



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