Thanks for the advice.I never knew about bi polar;wish I had known he was and what ramifications were associated with it before I married him The spending sprees were the worst.He had credit cards in his own name and we have refinanced our other house 4 times to pay them off(the house finally sold for way less than market value;hence the $70,000 still owed to the bank on the business loan.I am going to get on the phone today and see about getting a low income lawyer. I will keep you posted.Thanks again!