The one thing everyone thinks..is that somehow we are strong....we don't think so...weak and hopeless is more like it....If I felt I was strong I would of left long ago...and then there are the childern...it is such a big decision to make...and you have never felt so all alone...

Know one should ever have to be in this situation...that is why it is so important...to encourage the abused to talk....it is very difficult to think there is no hope or way out....being open and having people understand and care what happens to you..is a very important step..trusting someone again does'nt come easy...