ok..someone else died because i did not speak.. i was abused.. i took it,,he went out of town on a job training.... he went to a nude bar, got drunk and payed a dancer to sleep with him,,she stiffed him... ran off with her boyfriend..he chased them... lost them.. so here he is..drunk, mad, horny, meanwhile a girl and her boyfriend get into a fight in their car..he gets a flat..she takes off walking.. guess who spots her?? my first husband... mad, horny.. makes a pass at her... she fights back.."NO ONE HITS HIM" and he beats her to death along side the road!! every year i relive this event in my head.. its HORRIBLE!!!!! i did not tell!!! i am living with that guilt.. i SHOULD have done something!!!! Dont you see??? please dont live with abuse!! please put a stop to it in your lives please!!!! i didnt, someone died!!!!!