I don't have a problem with mfergel making all these posts. The problem in my opinion is that he doesn't listen to the answers. Each new thread he makes is something that's been addressed in another thread he started.

Should you take your daughter to the birthday party? If your wife isn't going to be there, then what difference does it make?

Do YOU want to take your daughter to the party?

Start making decisions that'll make YOU (and your daughter) happy. Screw the STBX's happiness.