[quote]Mfergel your a nice enough guy, the point is if we don't get you to trust you own decision making process what good are we. You need to learn to trust in yourself again. It's the biggest hurdle we face in divorce. You must trust in yourself to move forward and begin to understand the life that lies ahead. A person who can't think on any level for themselves is doomed to repeat his mistakes in life. [/quote]

You may be right. Maybe I feel like I've made so many bad decisions in the past that lead up to this event that I'm going to screw up and lose whatever I have left that remains.