Ok my X informed me that her BF is down for a few days. She said that she picked him up from the airport last night and he doesn’t have a vehicle here. She told me that he will be coming with her to drop of the kids this afternoon. I know, I know, I know-this shouldn't be a problem. I got into a huge fight with this guy a bout 2-1/2 years ago. I went to jail but the charges were later dropped. I have never been in any kind of trouble before. He is the guy that she was having an affair with my wife. I really can’t stand him and I really don't want him coming to my home. Should I just suck it up and not let this bother me? I know that it is the right thing to do. The guy doesn’t know when to be quite and doesn’t make the best of decisions at times. He has a very bad temper. I also have a lot of inner anger towards him for all the crap he has done. And yes I know it takes two to tango so it isn’t completely his fault.

Now that I have vented a little. What should I do?