[quote]HK -- I am jealous that you are still friends. I wish we had that.

Kudos to you. [/quote]

I actually listened to and attempted to put into play the good advice I have gotten on this forum. I think Boobaa-Loobaa-Ding-Dong was most influential, what with not "marinating in anger" and all.

I have control over my own life.

All the $$$ I lost was always for her anyway, in case I croaked or something.

We've become better friends since we don't have to live together day in / day out.

I'm not sure where this will go from here.

Depends on whether malone "puts the move on me", I reckon.