I try not to trash except on here. I think I do a good job but I'm sure there is always room for improvements though. I get so tired of spending my day just trying to repair the damage she does by trashing me. I've been on the phone all day trying to straighten out all the medical mess she has created, the teacher's frustration in dealing with her and my daughters psychologiest dealing with the X and that is just today. I've had to explain myself to cops, my wifes X, friends, landords, boss's, CPS and countless others just because of her trashing me. I've tried over and over to just be civil and I'm tired of it. Didn't mean to ramble or still the thread I'm just PI$$ED OFF.