my stbx tried to say everything i filed against him was a lie.
over time his behavior is following him.
he's not quite getting caught,
but i know when things are not all 'hunky dory' the gf says the SAME things about him that i did.
he's back to drinking and a bit of whoring here and there.

while none of it's documented yet....i figure give it time...

as for the kids,
yeah. i HOPE They dont find out who their dad really is,
but they are figuring out the jist simply in his relationship with them.