Believe me I understand the anger and the resentment of wanting to jab and needle when being accused of doing things that I did not do. However what will this letter accomplish?

Will it make you feel better? Maybe in the short term but in the long run it will bother you.

Will it make her act better? Not a chance in hell, it will probably invoke a biter reply and the vicious cycle will start over.

Will it help your daughter? Very unlikely.

Will help your wife? No it will drive the wedge even further between your wife and your ex's resentment of each other and make all future contact that much more unbearable.

So again I ask what is the point fo the letter?

(wow what a difference a few days makes, my recent posts are much less bitter than normal!)