I don't think it was necessarily put there for me to see. She's not spiteful or vindictive. I think it was more of an oversight on her part. She put the kids to bed, and laid down with them and fell asleep.

I would of used the hall bathroom, but it's right next to the kid's room and I didn't want to wake anyone up. Also, I was already in her room, since that's where her wireless router was. Not making excuses, this is just the way things are setup. I honestly don't go looking for stuff.

And yes, she wanted the divorce. I didn't. But, that's not stopped me from wanting to remain friends with her. I can't help that, she's been my best friend for 15 years, and I don't want to throw that away simply because I can't remain married. I truly want her to be happy. I'm still adjusting to the not being married part. I don't feel like she's my problem. I'm not feeling like I need to be the hero on the white horse either. She needed some help, so I helped her out.