[quote]Christine,

I am so so so sorry for not being more sensitive to your situation. I have so much animosity for my ex. He sits in judgement of others when it is plain to all that he can barely care for himself. The longer the brain injured go from the time of their injury the harder it is for them to realize how damaged they are. Unfortunately this war will do for brain injury what Christopher Reeves did for spinal cord injury. Make people aware. My ex is very good at faking. He keeps notebooks filled with details and plans of what to do and say in situations because his brain injury is in the frontal lobe. Once you reach a certain point in the relationship he has nothing left to give. Had I not gotten pregnant on our 3rd date I would never have married him. Besides he told me he had no residual problems from his 8 day coma??? Trust me he has them. He cannot keep a job in his field and friends come and go. The only friends he maintains are from before the accident. Our 7 year old can tell he has a problem. Soon she will not want to continue their relationship. She is advancing past him. [/quote]

Well it looks like your bad choices affect your ability to be objective regarding others.

What a shock!!!