[quote]I agree with Rob.

My X wife and I were best friends that got married. We were married for 15 years, most of which were pretty damn fun. I'm fairly certain that she feels the same way as I do, we enriched each other's lives in many ways, but things just kind of fell apart at the end for a variety of reasons.

I have no romantic interests in my life at the moment. I'm not sure I really want any. So far this month I have gotten together with my X a number of times, helping her move, going out to dinner, just going for a drive in the country. It's nice to have a friend to share a meal and a good laugh with. We had a good laugh yesterday when I slopped my bourbon-glazed pork chop all over my shirt. LOL.

I agree with Rob that life's too short. You could choke to death on a pea at your next meal. I have no time for nor interest in dragging around a bunch of anger and animosity toward my X.

Background: married 15 years, no kids, no infidelity, abuse, etc.

I'm sure that makes a HUGE difference in the ability to remain friends. [/quote]

Who wanted the divorce you or her?

Is she dating anyone new?

If she was would you still want to hang with her?

To be friends that hang out the answer is NO, but I would like things to remain civil. If I see her in the supermarket I don't want to have to avoid her and go down another aisle
I would rather just be able to say hello make some small talk and leave.