[quote]Not being friends doesn't mean that you have to hate her/him or feel any animosity towards them. No need to waste any energy. Getting to a point where you feel truly indifferent about them is the goal for me. [/quote]

Agreed. In a perfect world we would all be best friends... oh no wait! In a perfect world there wouldn't be things like infidelity and divorce.

There's a big difference between indifference and wishing someone ill. Indifference is definitely the way for me to go.