[quote]So my STBX is still living here and I've slept with him at least 3 times in the last week. We didn't do that before we decided to split. But of course he is now telling me we should probably quit because it isn't fair to the girlfriend. This made me a little angry today but then again, why should I let him have me anyway. I really have to adopt the no touching rule. But he will still hug me and be my "friend" and it just feels good to be hugged sometimes.
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Ok I don't even know where to start. I think you might be in denial. Samsmom, he needs to move out and you need to stop sleeping with him.

[quote]But of course he is now telling me we should probably quit because it isn't fair to the girlfriend. [/quote]

Girl, I am outraged for you. I think you have too much going on at once. All I can say is that I'm sorry you have to go through this. You deserve better.