PainnedPatty,,, I'm truly sorry your having a bad day. My day to has been a bit of an upset. I realize that when the instructions read " 2 adults", it's because extra hands are really needed. I bought my daughter a trampoline w/enclosure for Christmas. Just now getting around to putting it up. I wish I could say times like this I really miss my s2bX, however he wouldn't have been around anyway.
Once you become accustom to this new hurdle you will be one step closer to being better. Right now we are alright, but soon we will be better.