This may sound crazy, but I almost wish that my stbx had a gf. He left me just because he didn't want to be with me anymore. No new love, no anything except not wanting to be with me. Talk about feeling diminished!!

I know that it is devastating to think that your spouse found someone they love more than you. It is also devastating to realize that they just want to be rid of you. I have been feeling like a disposable person ever since he left.

Patty