[quote] But I also remind myself when this happens that before, my life was like this 24/7. It reminds me that I did do the right thing! And so did you...limited, supervised contact with your stbx for your son is better than being reminded daily that his father doesn't care about him. [/quote]

That is a great way to view the situation! I will keep that in mind when my blood is boiling. Limited contact in this situation is definitely a plus. Even my sister says DS and I are much better off this way. At least life is stable and predictable when it's just us. And, mom (me) is much calmer all the time. (except for during those bouts of contact) We only do email and text message contact ourselves.