I completely understand. Just texted mine last night asking if my son could stay to do fire works tommorrow night. I have to pick my words carefully. I have to go over in my head what to say and how to say it-without giving him something to 'feed' off of, to twist around and make me feel bad or angry.

He said 'if that's what he wants to do'. So my son was happy. We are going to a 4th of july party and then everyone is coming to my farm to watch fireworks-my boyfriend and son bought $300 worth of fireworks! We have a ban on fireworks in the city limits-but we live in the county. We need some rain bad.

Happy 4th of July to everyone!