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For interest here is what he gave me:
"DB will take SB on or before July 4/08 and will return SB on or before or after Aug 4/08. That will be up to her. She is old enough to pick her return date. I will leave it up to her..."[/quote]

He didn't give you a return date. All he has to do is say that she doesn't want to return. Unfortunately, since you did let her go without a specific return date, you are going to have to get one in court.

Personally, I would get in contact with your lawyer first thing Monday morning. This mistake you made can be rectified.

If he tries to postpone, simply tell the court that it needs to be heard as he may not be planning on returning your child to you.

I know it is real hard when it is you who is going to look like the bad guy. And that is how he set it up. Hopefully, this won't be a major issue. But you need to be prepared in case it turns into one.