I know how you feel. I think the same thing sometimes. It sucks that she gets to dump me and gets to move on with her life without skipping a beat while I'm stuck in relationship limbo. Abbysfv has a great sig, that her ex will make someone very happy -- for a very short time. I think that's the way I see my ex and her new man. It won't last because she hasnt't learned anything and at some point he'll become as bored with her as I did only he will be smart enough to get out. It's funny, my daughter was talking to me this morning saying she doesn't like her mom's new boyfriend. I was a bit surprised as in the past she said she did. I asked her why and she said it was because her mommy and I should be together. I kind of figured this would happen at some point. I don't even know how to explain to her that I don't want to be with her mother anymore.