Christine,

I read your post and I am so sorry. I think he is trying to make you crazy with his antics. I would not be able to handle what you are going through. My ex only took our daughter once and did not return her at the agreed time. He has not done anything too bad since. I can barely stand it when she is gone. She is the reason for my latest heartbreak. He (the BF)disliked her so much...he really disliked how much I need her and love her. How much I enjoy being with her. It is so sad...

Don't let him know how upset you are. If you pretend not to care he has lost his power over you. Easier said than done I know.