It is all about POWER!! He wants you to be afraid and off kilter and running to your attorney. That way he is in control even if he is no longer in your life. My ex is exactly the same way! He is furious that he cannot control what I do in my home now that he no longer is the head of household. He filed for divorce...he called me unfit. He said I was addicted to drugs and had anger issues and was a violent threat to our child's well being. I was so freaked out by all these so called charges against me he got everything he wanted in the divorce. He has a brain injury and he got joint custody!

I WAS A BIG FAT FOOL!!!!!! Don't let him win...just laugh and say have a great time being a parent for a change. tell him you have plans to get laid and play and have fun now that he has the child! Doesn't matter if it isn't true...do not let him know he is hurting you!