Yes. It is VERY rough what you're going through. It doesn't matter what you do or don't do, it will seem like a mistake.

The best I can think of is to try to always work from a place of love. This does NOT mean giving her everything she wants. It DOES mean loving yourself and your children.

There are worse things to do than to let your child see you cry. That was honest and not meant to be manipulating.

You love and forgive others. Love and forgive yourself as well. That could be the best example you can give to your children.

Good luck, Dad.

Tom