Patty,
I am so sorry you are having a tough time. Please believe that this, too, will pass, and everything - the house, the divorce, your daughter, will settle itself in time. You have proved to yourself that you can get thru this - look how much you have accomplished so far!
You have no control over your husband's or your daughters actions, so concentrate on what you can control. Take Daisy for a walk today and with each step you take,tell yourself you are one step closer to getting thru this and starting your wonderful new life. I'll be thinking of you.