Yes, I have told them I am sorry for telling them too much. But I also don't want them to follow us... But I need to give them positive examples. For some reason I find myself using our bad example.

The no contact rule... I know I do better with no contact but I don't just want to sit by and watch my marriage die. Perhaps I don't have a choice on that... I've been really torn, yes there has been contact recently. I've got to get the house on the market... so there has to be some contact. Hopefully my attorney with have an answer from her's. Thanks for letting me vent.