Met with atty last week. My disabled wife will likely get perm alimony but instead i told my atty id like to start out offering 600/month for full 12 years of marriage. My atty plus another one i interviewed said i'd likely have to pay 1100 in PRE D alimony but unsure what after the D is final. (PA has a weird law)

she looked at me like WOW you are generous. I said well i heard the norm is 1/2 marriage and ill likely pay perm alimony anyway and we need a starting point. Plus i dont wanna insult her and make her MORE resolved. And my wifes atty hasnt returned her calls in a month so maybe he will just accept this and be done with it. I just dont want to seem so preposterous and lowballing given the circumstances.

so what do you think?