Thanks Judy, the problem is that he insisted on getting an attorney, whom we met with back in February and paid him for the divorce. He can't represent both of us, but will work with us to craft the settlement agreement. We should be meeting with him next week and then my part will basically be done, except for meeting with my attorney on a consultant basis to sign off on the agreement. There really should be no problems as he is more than willing to give me the financial support that I will need. Guilt does wonders you know!!