hey, m, you'll be ok and you really are not back at square one. you'll recover much quicker from this setback. as much as it hurts, at least you know you were willing to try and forgive. now you know that with him, he can't/won't change.

of course, this cements my opinion, that once a cheater, always a cheater.

i think you'll see that you'll feel a little better each day. you've made it this far, you'll make it even farther.