Good Morning Patty,
I'm in the same boat as everyone else here,hate to see you so hurt. I completely understand the pain in regards to your daughter. X's we expect the unexpected. But with our children we deserve and would love some compassion from them. But it seems as though sometimes that is where we find the least comfort.
Going through similar incidents with my older children, I can't help but wonder if that it their way of protecting themselves.
Here we are as Mother's has always been the back bone, the strength, the courageous one in the family. And with divorce causing us so much pain, is it possible that our children see this as a sign of weakness? Could it scare them to the point that they more or less shun us? Waiting for their own nightmare to end. To wake up and have that tough, self assured mother they have always depend on.
life is so unfair. You spend years and years of your life building it around your family, just to awaken one morning and it's all in disarray.
Moving in itself is hard enough without all the other drama you are dealing with. But smile my Sweet, God is on his way. Everything is going to be fine. Your a lovely lady.
You deserve much better. This too shall pass.