Believe me, I love my daughter but I sometimes wish she wasn't in the picture so I didn't have to see her at all. I'd rather have no contact, period.

As for dating like a fiend to make her jealous. Not at all. I'm doing that for me. I already feel that I'm attractive and women want to be around me. Heck, on father's day, the stbx told me 'I looked good'. I told her I know and that I didn't need to hear it from her. That pissed her off.