>So many times we find ourselves attracted to the people that we believe need saved, and worth saving.

Well, yeah! How ELSE are you going to feel like you're worth something unless your spouse NEEDS you?

The only problem is when YOU SUCCEED and you DO help them - help them become independent of YOU! Then they don't need you anymore. "Thanks for all the fish" and off they go.

So, whom shall I take on as my next project?

I don't have a problem. Not me!

Maybe I can finish 30 years on a project and STILL not learn anything from it.

It's about time I started reeling. There's too much telling me that my next step out into the real world could be VERY dangerous - to me and my next.