Tom,

Feel your pain man, BELIEVE ME PLEASE.

Hang in there. I'm hangin' in there with next to no hope at this point, but we just HAVE to keep on keepin' on.

Make you a deal: I'll be here for you but I'll need you there for me. I'm struggling man, and I understand like you could not imagine. Hang tough man, for you, your family, and for ME dude.

I'm goin' outside with my daughter to light a bonfire to burn my past "wasted" love in cards, letters, etc. to TBX. She dumped them on my porch...an invitation to "ignition" in my book!!!!!

You're a good man Tom. Please hang tough. It "sukks", but somehow, we will persevere.