all $$ issues aside
(we all know i cant keep this house finacially if i have to pay the mortgage/utilites)

so...

has there ever been a circumstance where the
NCP takes over the maritial home
and
the CP moves with the kids?

what happens custody wise when/if that happens?

if im given custody of the kids
(as i have been the 'temporary legal and custodial parent'
for the past year and a half)
at the final hearing,
and
he takes over the house.

my moving would be a 'change in circumstances' if i moved to a more affordable neighborhood school district.

so couldnt he at that point file for custody stating he's in the children's original home/school district?

OR

IF this happens should i find somthing somehow and stay in the district?

he's track record stinks, but the past six months he's stepped up...takes the kids to his parents, comes as scheduled, etc. so....

and if he moves here without the g/f and her kids...
well, im just thinking all this through
as that's a 50% possibility.

has ANYONE ever had the ncp buy out the maritial home
becasue the CP cant afford it?

thanks.

ps. should i post this under custody? or leave it?