Taryn-I doubt it would matter. You have been a SAHM for all these years. You have been the children's primary caretaker and have been given temporary custody of them. You have shown that even under the $ circumstances-you have taken care of the kids, no matter what.

Changing school districts is not the ideal-but it won't be the end of the world. Your children won't be the first to have to change school districts because their parents are divorcing.

I know you are worrying about every little detail and I understand. But try to think positive.

The only thing I think could happen is he may ask for 50/50 custody. 50/50 is becoming more common these days. I don't know if he wants that or not. You are not going to lose custody of your kids.