I keep getting anonymous email stating that there are things going on between my husband and the girl he had an affair with. They come at times when I already have doubt - for instance - last night he was out with the guys...Today I get an email letting me know that yesterday was her birthday and asking if I knew where my husband was....

We are in the process of getting divorced - I filed last week but we are living together until we get some financial issues resolved and our finances under control - (he was out of work for 3 1/2 months).

This isn't the first round of these I've gotten - they did stop while she was away at bootcamp - so I don't know if it's her or what the deal is (of course there was nothing to report when she wasn't around right?).

I told him if he is contacting her, we can't live amicably in our home and he has to leave. He says he isn't but also says it's unfair of me to say that since I filed for divorce.

I say if we are in the same household this shouldn't be happening. Am I wrong?