1 son in the Navy and a daughter who will be 17.

gigi - when I try to reply to the messages the emails come back undeliverable - like someone is setting up a ghost account, sending email and then deleting the accounts pronto. I suppose if I tried through my IT group they could help track things down some way like CSI ;) but I think you guys are all right - who else would be doing this. At one point he blamed it on our daughter....

In any case, the bottom line is he is a 48 year old man and she is a 21 year old (censored) - we are middle class, she comes from the projects area of a nearby city. Messing around with her as the janitor from work with a body (not face) is one thing - him and her trying to co-exist....not sure that will work out for long...

At this point, I guess it really isn't my problem - I've given it since March and I just can't deal anymore which is why I filed last week.

Actually when I filed his only response was - "Do you feel better now?"....Yeah, I just signed away 20 years of my life - everything I've worked for and lived for - I feel much better....and over what? A girl that could be my daughter!