"It must be so great to be perfect just the way you are."

That was meant in humor,but your humor comes across MUCH funnier than mine!I know you are tired of trying to change yourself to suit others,tired of figuring out what got you here....Tired of people judging you, tired of being disappointed in life,and love..and marriage.

We all are.Hang tough buddy!

WE can only do what we can do with our limitations.

I didn't mean to make you feel worse...really..I am sorry if I did.

How about a new thread.."WHAT IS RIGHT WITH ME?"

That would be a nice change, wouldn't it?