Sarah - You were absolutely right. I finished reading that book, and it is about me personally. When I met my ex I worked out every day (except Sunday). I started skipping doing that to go see him. Eventually I quit going at all (well, my trainer made a pass at me, and I couldn't figure out what to do other than go somewhere else, and I never found another place that felt quite right, so I just quit going). I pretty much lost myself in the marriage completely. I had stopped doing any of the things I did before I got married because I had some kind of crazy belief that we should do everything together, which ended up being doing pretty much of nothing.

NEVER AGAIN!

All women should read this book. It is really not about women being bitches, but maintaining themselves and not losing themselves in a relationship.

THANKS SARAH! I plan to re-read that book often.