Hello~ I am back for the moment. I haven’t been on the forum in a while but I do stop by every now and again to read and reply to PM’s...

Here is the deal. I am tired of my X lying to me and the kids. For some strange reason she can’t seem to stop. I will be divorced a full year this coming January. Since the divorce she has gotten “common law married” and her BF lives with her. He works out of state most of the time so he isn’t around much. My current problem is she is constantly lying to me. Recently a friend of mine told me that she had heard that my X and her BF filed the paper work for a “common law marriage”. I noticed the ring on her finger but when I asked she told me that it was a gift from her mother. She also told me that she wasn't married and had no intensions on getting married any time soon. Well I looked it up at the court house and its right there in black and white. Another lie.
A week ago she told me that she and her boss were going out of town for a week for some training. Well her training was to be this week. She sends me a text message yesterday morning gritchen about how she was having to share a room with her boss who is another female. I went to lunch yesterday with a vender saw her boss. I spoke with her yesterday evening when she called to tell the kids good night. I told her that I had seen her boss at lunch??? She told me that it was none of my business what she was doing or who she was with. She is right to an extent it’s not my business. But why lie to me, the kids, and her parents about where she went and what she was doing. Her parents are picking the kids up from school for me this week. Long story short~ she flew to another state to be with her BF because he has to go to court this week for a DUI he got a while back. She has flew other times to see him and told me where she was going and I have been fine with it. I honestly don’t care that she went so why does she lie to me about it? She isn’t my problem any more she is his. My point here is she is the mother to our children. I feel that she should be honest to me about where she was going. I don't need all the details but the simplified truth would be nice. What’s wrong with her telling me: Hey I am going to se “BF” for a week. My flight leaves Sunday 21st and I will be returning on Saturday the 27th. Why does she lie??? Am I asking for too much?