What do you do for a living? Do you have family around? Are you and she still living in the same house or have you resolved the property issues and split yourselves in half yet? Sometimes, facing the split that's not yet happened is harder than reflecting on it after it's over.

Have you dealt with the business of splitting up stuff yet so that figuring out how to face the sadness and move forward is even an issue yet? I mean, when the business of figuring out who stays & who goes and how to re-finance and re-title and changing address and she gets living room furniture while you get dining room stuff... that is just SO overwhelming that if you push yourself to deal with it, it can help you give yourself time before you need to deal with the emotions of the whole mess.

How far along are you in the process?