[quote]if you can do that, girl, i give you credit. i have no respect for my ex or his wife, therefore, there will be no extending of the olive branch. respect is important in any kind of relationship. i don't bad mouth either of them in front of the girls, but my girls aren't stupid. they know there's no love lost between the ex and me or his wife and me.

again, kudos to you for taking that route. [/quote]\

oh, kat.
i SO do not get kudos as i have NO idea if i even can take this route. i do NOT want to, but now ive got to start thinking of my kids safety and well being.

plus i figure i can do this on a case by case situaiton.
i can change my tune at anytime.

i just want to see if ANYONE else sucked it up and tried this route and if it was best for thier kids, confused them or made no difference.

t