In some respects I shouldn't be surprised that hubby forgot our anniversary...things have been really crazy lately between health problems, new baby, and tenant issues. He returns to work in a few days with a lot of unsettled issues lingering for our family. We have been to the doctors 11 times in the past 8 days and my own blood pressure is thru the roof. He won't take any extra days off work although he's got 180 hours of vacation left.
It is very much unlike him though to not remember...when I realized that if I didn't say something that he'd have his day planned with doing stuff for tenants, he got upset with me. I know he's stressed & working hard but I wonder too if it's a gender thing.
Is it just another date to most men?
Just a few weeks ago he talked about how he wanted to renew our vows on our 5th anniversary, so I thought it meant more but after our conversation today I have to wonder...
I hate feeling so needy.