Your husband is probably feeling overwhelmed right now and unintentionally forgot the anniversary. The two of you do have a lot going on right now.

And you just had a baby, with all of those hormones running around, I am not surprised that you are feeling like you are right now. I didn't just give birth and I feel overwhelmed by what you have posted about your situation.

Take it one day at a time. All of you will get through this rough patch.