I can relate... to your guy. =)

My X always remembers the little dates - anniversary of the first kiss, the first date... all that kind of stuff. And he plans for it weeks in advance. One valentines day, there was a huge blizzard here (24 inches of snow in 12 hours) - but he had made plans for a fancy dinner. He went outside three separate times that day, during the snowstorm, to dig out the car so that we could make it to the restaurant by 7! I really appreciated it, but I wouldn't have been crushed if we didn't go.

On the other hand, I ALWAYS had trouble remembering these things. I completely forgot our first anniversary! Does this mean that I love him any less? No way - I'm just an idiot sometimes. And I know that I get especially bad about remembering those kind of things when I'm stressed out. And it sounds like that's the case with you two right now...

So please take it easy on the guy. All of us forgetful type need some forgiveness (and I'm SURE he'll try to make it up to you once things settle down).