I always remembered our anniversary. But, I did have a problem with number amnesia when it came to her b-day. Was it 5/4 or 5/3? So, I tossed it on my cell phone calendar and it would remind me. But here's the problem... her b-day would land during the most busy time of the school year, and I was usually overwheled by then. I would have a hard time trying to plan out really special stuff.

Did it mean that I loved her any less? Hell no! But she remembered every little date. And it kinda made me feel stupid.

But, remembering dates is just remembering dates. Did she consistently want to have dinner with me in the evenings? NO. Did she make me a priority in her life? NO. Did she go on vacation with me and leave her effing job at home? NO. Did she respect my wishes about not putting students on our cell plan? NO. Did she tell me the truth about the credit card bill? NO.

In short... a date is a date. I don't want one day to commemorate my marriage. I want MOST days to commemorate my marriage; just like mother's/father's day should NOT be one day. It should be damn well near every day.

Pero es me dos pesos.