Well, I think the ones we were with weren't the right ones for us. So if you felt good with the wrong one, just think how much better your life will be when you meet that someone who is just right for you, that you can tell all your secrets to, that understands what your feeling and snuggles just right. Then each of us will be able to recognize it for what a glorious and wonderful thing it is, and we'll know better than to take it for granted. Maybe we had to go through what we went through in order to get to a much better placre?? I sure hope so.