He's the one who ASKED for the divorce!!

My X is the ultimate ass. We were divorced 2 weeks ago. He didn't show up. Now, his "best friend" (who I am also friends with) just told me he told him "hey buddy! you didn't know you've been single for 2 weeks? Hell, yeah. You're divorced!!" His best friend is also tired of my x's stupid crap that he's pulling on everyone he knows. Everyone is tired of the x's crap. It seems to be some sort of mid-life crisis where he's reverted back to being a completely irresponsible 17 year old.

Anyway, now I'm sitting and waiting for the repercussions of him not showing up to the hearing, or responding to any of the settlement paperwork - which he had MONTHS to reply to or contest. The judge imputed income to him based on his last known real job, since he never submitted any recent pay information. so, his CS calculation was based on that.
The judge also wrote into a ruling that the x is only allowed to appeal based on information previously submitted (which wasn't much because he dropped out of the picture in the middle of the divorce process).

Should I be afraid? Can he do anything to me? The fact that this person has so much power over me (I know, it's only because I let him) makes me want to vomit. I haven't spoken to him in about 10 months. And the last conversation was about 30 seconds long, and discussed when I would be back to pick up our son from their visit.

I see why no contact works wonders. But I sit here, wondering WTH is going on in my x's mind and what he's possibly scheming up.

I'm not really sure if any of this made sense. I guess I'm just venting and trying to collect my thoughts.